"These questions will draw you closer than you ever imagined..."
In a ground-breaking study recently featured in the New York Times, psychologist Arthur Aron succeeded in making two strangers fall in love simply by having them ask each other a series of 36 questions.
The questions were specifically designed to build trust, openness and eventually feelings of deep intimacy.
The journalist writing the piece for the New York Times was so intrigued by the study and having gone through a recent breakup asked a man she was merely acquainted with (they had never hung out one on one) if he was willing to meet at a bar and go through these questions with her as an experiment.
They met and over the course of a few hours asking each other the questions something fascinating happened:
what would come of our interaction. If nothing else, I thought it
would make a good story. But I see now that the story isn’t about
us; it’s about what it means to bother to know someone, which is
really a story about what it means to be known.
It’s true you can’t choose who loves you, although I’ve spent years hoping otherwise, and you can’t create romantic feelings based on convenience alone. Science tells us biology matters; our pheromones and hormones do a lot of work behind the scenes.
But despite all this, I’ve begun to think love is a more pliable thing than we make it out to be. Arthur Aron’s study taught me that it’s possible — simple, even — to generate trust and intimacy, the feelings love needs to thrive.
You’re probably wondering if he and I fell in love. Well, we did."
Asking the right questions can help you fall in love, stay in love or grow deeper in love.
Additionally, asking the right questions will potentially save you a lot of heart-ache if asked early in the relationship if "red flags" pop up. I've heard way too many stories of long-term relationships or marriages breaking up because important things never got discussed in the early stages and caused huge issues later on.
Where are you
currently in your relationship or non-relationship?
___ I miss the great conversations we used to have.
___We seem to have run out of things to talk about.
___ I am worried about our long distance relationship making it.
___ How do I really know if he/she is the one for me?
___ Meeting people is awkward for me. I never know what to say.
___ Sometimes I feel like I am married to a stranger.
___ I feel like we never have deep conversations.
___ It is hard for me to share things in the past (or fantasies or dreams)
YOUR COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS - SOLVED!
Based on Dr. Arthur Aron's research I have not only put together questions that will help couples FALL IN LOVE but have scientifically collected a total of 1,000 of the most important questions couples should ask each other. These are questions that go beyond small talk and simply making conversation like you will find in most "questions" books. You will NOT find questions like "if you were a color, what color would you be" or "what is your favorite flavor of ice cream".
OPENED UP IN A WHOLE NEW WAY
"My girlfriend and I avoided discussing certain topics like our thoughts about sex, our religious differences and her spending habits. These 1000 questions have helped us to open up to one another in a way I didn't think was possible." – Vincent Rawley
"1000 Questions For Couples"
There are hundreds of fun "getting to know you" and "chemistry bonding" questions that if answered honestly and openly will create feelings of deep care, concern and even passion.
There are also important questions that most people don't even think of asking but are absolutely vital if you want to have a happy relationship.
I've known of people who never told their mate about being arrested for molesting children, that they had DUI convictions, that they were sterile or had a STD. Admittedly, those are difficult questions to ask someone. But, if you are going through a book of questions, it is much easier to bring difficult subjects out into the open. Just the practice of answering the "easy" questions will prime you and your partner for truthfully answering the more challenging ones.
All of these questions will help you to really know the thoughts, feelings and desires of the one you are with. After going through these questions, you will really know the things your sweetheart is passionate about. You will know how you can give them much joy and happiness. You will also discover what irritates them and makes them blue.
Surprisingly, answering these questions will significantly cut down on the fighting, bickering and arguments.
MORE IN LOVE NOW AFTER 17 YEARS
"My husband and I have been emailing 3-4 of the questions and our answers each day for the last month and it has had the most wonderful effect on our relationship. I felt that we had just been 'coasting' for a while but now we are more in love than we have been in our 17 years together. And the resulting passion has been amazing." – Barbara Koen
While these questions are an absolute must for couples to ask while dating, over 700 of the questions are crucial for married couples to discuss too.
Here are the topics the 1000 questions are divided into:
|Personality, Feelings & Emotions|
|Health, Food & Well Being|
|Morals, Convictions and Beliefs|
|Religion & Spiritual Matters|
|Car & Driver|
|Holidays & Celebrations|
|Home & Home Life|
|Past & Future|
|Hobbies & Entertainment|
|Love, Romance & Date Nights|
|Friends & Family|
|Career and Education|
|Relationships – Past & Present|
|Children & Child Rearing|
|Wedding & Honeymoon|
If you and your partner answer these 1000 questions, I guarantee that you will know each other better and will be more passionately connected than 99% of othe couples on the face of the earth.
I'm so certain that you will love 1000 Questions for Couples that it comes with a money-back guarantee. If you are unsatisfied for any reason, send it back for a full refund. No questions asked.
"My boyfriend of four and a half years and I really thought we knew each other well until we started going through your questions. At the end he finally felt confident enough to pop the question and set a date." - Laura Hill
Who Am I and Why
Should You Listen To Me?
My name is Michael Webb and for the last 20 years I've helped millions of couples, like you, learn to have fulfilling and successful relationships that last a lifetime.
As a result of my deep passion and understanding of relationship, I've published 18 books, read by more than 10 million people - helping both women and men with almost every imaginable relationship and marriage problem.
My first book, The Romantic's Guide is a international bestseller in multiple languages. It was released in February 2000 and is already in its 10th printing.
And as a result of this particular book, I was featured on Oprah to talk about ways to rekindle relationships for the episode, Challenge Your Spouse.
Not to mention, I've been featured in the media countless times sharing my tips and secrets with millions of viewers worldwide. Including:
Plus, magazines like Redbook, Marriage, and Cosmopolitan.
And I've also been named "The World's Most Romantic Man" from many sources, including Woman's World Magazine.
Appeared in RedBook
Appeared in Woman's World Magazine (November 1997)
All in all, I am regarded in the media as one of the nation's top experts on relationship matters. So you can be certain that the questions in this book are exactly what you need to help successfully marry or keep your relationship together.
Bonuses Included With
1000 Questions For Couples
As an added BONUS, those who purchase the e book (IT IS NOT AVAILABLE IN STORES) can also receive a FREE 300-day email course. If you wish, in addition to the ebook, you can sign up for 3-5 of the book's questions to be emailed to you every day for 300 days. This is a wonderful tool if you and your partner would like to answer the questions via email correspondence with each other.
cost for the best-selling 1000 Questions for Couples course is only
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This guide reveals how newlyweds can build a truly happy life together. You'll discover:
The six values critical to building an unshakable foundation to your happy marriage - pages 9-18
How to stay truly happy together and how to avoid the common pitfalls of marriage - pages19-21
The 4 powerful tools in your romance toolbox - pages 29-30
How you can be overjoyed together even when things aren't going your way- page 38
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RECENT CUSTOMER SUCCESS STORIES
HELPED US GET ENGAGED
"My boyfriend and I took four months going through the questions - a few each day and at the end we were so certain about our future together that we didn't hesitate to get engaged."
OUR RELATIONSHIP COULDN'T BE CLOSER NOW
"I'm a divorced single mum but when I was married I went through this book after I was married and there was so much, even after being married for 12 years, that I didn't know about my ex-husband. I'm currently in a relationship and my boyfriend and I are going through this book and we have learned so much about each, that we've become so connected… It's a connection I didn't even have with a husband of 12 years and I've only been dating my boyfriend for 3. I just got the book about a year ago so we're just still plugging along through it but It's just amazing! And our relationship couldn't be closer!"
SAVED ME FROM MARRYING THE WRONG GUY
I had been going out with this guy for about 7 months and we were even engaged when I began to question whether or not I really knew him. My mom bought this book for me as she was really concerned.
We only got through about half of the book and it was pretty obvious that he wasn't exactly what he portrayed himself to be. I got real creeped out by some of his answers and I am sooooooo grateful I didn't marry the guy.
– S. Ables
HELPED OUR MARRIAGE - COMMUNICATING AGAIN
"I must say this was just PERFECT for myself and my husband. We were going through some marital difficulties, got this book while we were in marriage counseling and actually used this by email and it was great. Thought we knew everything about each other and turned out we didn't know ANYTHING about each other! And it was a great way to open the lines of communication between each other and to just have fun with it.
We take one or two questions a day and fire 'em back and forth. We both have a copy of the book and we pick out questions and just went through the book. And it made it so we just got to the point where we can just ask each other anything. It was really great for us. It was just wonderful to just have a starting point to begin to communicate with each other, which was a really big issue for us. So thank you so much. It was exactly what we needed. And I recommend it to everybody!"
PERFECT FOR OUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
"My feedback is for the 1000 questions for couples ebook which we just downloaded, my new girlfriend and I, she's at a distance. And we pretty much spent about a month and a half, going through maybe half or more of the questions so far, it's our number #1 thing we like to do every day, every night, is learn about each other in depth and find out how amazingly compatible we are and areas we have to learn to compromise in to go forward in our life together and merge our families. It's the best thing we've done! We've really really deeply fallen in love doing the 1000 questions for couples. Thank you very much Michael, you're awesome!"
WE KNOW EACH OTHER PERFECTLY NOW
"My favorite book would be the 1000 questions for couples. I enjoyed doing this with my husband, fiancee at the time, before we got married because we asked each a lot of questions and probably delved into a lot of information that we wouldn't have necessarily done or come up with on our own. So it's great to help you get to know your mate better and, not that we know each other just perfectly now, but it sure helped with our position on the way we think, so we can know the way the other one thinks and make our decision to be a married couple and have a wonderful life. Thank you."
HELPS US TALK DEEPLY EACH DAY
"Something that has affected my relationship very powerfully is the 1000 Questions For Couples, I actually printed off all questions and cut them off into slips and decorated a shoebox and put them in there and because I have a really long distance relationship, we've been dating for 3 years, and so every night, I pull a few questions out of the box and we'll talk to each other and answer the questions and re-connect and form and even stronger bond than we had and it's a really great way for us to continue to have things to talk about when we're not necessarily sharing everything because we're such a long distance apart. So I really love it, thank you because it's been a great help."
BETTER THAN PRE-MARITAL COUNSELING
"I was married once before and even did a 6 week marriage counseling session that my church offered. Unfortunately the counseling wasn't as good as it should have been because 3 years later I discovered a lot of things about my husband that didn't come out in the open during the counseling sessions.
My fiance and I have now gone through all the questions and trust me, I feel that no stones are left unturned this time. These questions are EXTREMELY thorough. Some are light-hearted (which I am glad for) but many are questions that I really wish me and my first husband had discussed.
I highly recommend this for anyone in a serious relationship. It will save you a lot of grief if you can answer the questions honestly."
THIS HAS BEEN SO MUCH FUN
"I bought a different questions book first. My boyfriend and I were a little disappointed in that books format, but we laughed at the multiple choice answers on some of them that were so outrageous. But...I decided to get this book by Michael Webb and I'm so glad I did!
It's 100% easier to read through, the questions are better and we love the format! This has been so much fun, added so much to our relationship and has been such a confirmation of all we have in common. What's nice is that so often the questions lead to other things being brought up and we really get to know each other even better. We highly recommend this book!"
RECOMMENDED BY MY PASTOR
"I read a statistic somewhere that if you go to pre-marital counseling before you get married it will cut down your probability of getting divorced by 75%.
I'm not sure if that is true but it certainly makes sense to have some sort of thorough discussion on all the vital topics before you say I do. I had asked my minister at church if he knew of any "tests" we should take before we get married to make sure we knew each other and he recommended this book.
I must say that it was extremely thorough and asked quite a number of questions that I didn't really feel comfortable answering but in the end drew me and my fiance really close together. Most questions were really fun to answer and I loved hearing my fiances answers - I learned a lot more about him than I thought I would. I definitely recommend this book."
– T. Cat
THOUGHT PROVOKING QUESTIONS!
"The questions you pose throughout the book are thought provoking, honest and certainly added to creating a solid base to start our initial relationship and ultimately our marriage. Over our short history of three years, I also believe the questions contained throughout your book have helped to pave the way for an open field of communication and total honesty."
– Michael Webb
P. S. Even if you decide you don't want to keep 1000 Questions for Couples ebook, the bonus ebooks are yours to keep. You have nothing to lose - but a lot to gain.
In essence, I've reversed all the risk. Read the book, take your relationship to new heights or get your money back. It's as simple as that!
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